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John Marcotte is a firm believer in traditional family values. He currently opposes government-funded death panels, Obama talking to children and MSNBC's entire prime-time line-up. 
Voters in my State of California need to pass a new law (ballot initiative) stating that, “Mormonism is not a real and true religious faith.” This law shall eliminate tax-exempt status of any LDS church and mormons will no longer be a protected-class status on the basis of religion.
Another law can state, “Only marriage between two adults of the same religious faith is valid or recognized in California.” So that young non-Mormon women (like myself) can protect ourselves from abusive, dishonest Mormon men, YES! =]
Nintendo u may be a sinner and play too many demonic video games but I do agree that Whole Bible Christianity must be the official religion of California, the Christian States of America, and the world. Only Christian couples who can have natural children should be able to get married.
Oy vay, I seriously need to cut back on the coffee.
Hello, I have written the value of Covenants and how it is interpretated through the bible. If you would like to read it http://mikesayen.wordpress.com/
Since the Gays have already gone and polluted the holy sanctity of Heterosexual marriage I say Civil Unions for ALL! You can’t very well get divorced if you were never really married! And once the fun of spoiling marriage for straight people is over the Gays will go back to having ‘roommates’.
When divorce was illegal there were Red Light Districts and Brothels. What does the Bible have to say about Whores and Brothels?
God IS Love. So do what He says or He will command His holy angels to torture you forever.
And remember: God is NOT Logic.
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Honestly; How is gay marriage a threat to straight peoples marriage? You obviously don’t get what it is to be gay. OR straight for that matter, you’re either born hardwired to like women, or men. So nothing can really turn you ‘gay’ or turn you ’straight’. You like what you like. Gay people getting married… Isn’t going to do anything to straight peoples marriages. What do you think gay people are going to do once they get the right to marry? Go out and start “destroying” and “tainting” straight peoples marriages? How? If gay people WERE allowed to get married, I highly doubt straight people could “taint” gay peoples marriages. I don’t get where you’re getting this from, or why you would think that. It’s just utter stupidity, and immoral idiocy. Everyone should be shown they have as much of a right as everyone else to do what ever they want. It’s like music..
You can’t make a song with only one note.
@Jeff, the Holy Bible says all who have s*x outside His plan are perverts and hated by God and His people. Gayety, divorce and fornikation are sinful choices made by people who hate God and His Son and are goin to hell anyway so why should a Christian nation give them any “rights” which come from the Bible anyway? I pray that God will judge all His enemies and give His people dominion over this His chosen nation amen.
haha you put an asterisk in the word “sex”. Grow up, ass holes, and start thinking outside the fucking text.
oh yeah. and we aren’t a christian nation. good try tho.
Seriously? What are the gays going to do to straights once they finally get the chance to marry? Be happy! That’s what they’re going to do. They aren’t violating anything!!! Jesus, they let abuse in marriages [Though those usually end in divorce] But, I mean being attracted to the same sex isn’t a crime. Let them love.
It aint a crime right now Chuck but u best watch out because Sarah Palin is going to lead this nation back to Christian law, their wont be no more divorce and the homo will be punished as Leviticus commands.
Thank You Jeff! Sounds so simple but unfortunatly so many people are brainwashed and cannot think for themselves anymore, so they believe anything that the religious right tells them,even if it is a lie! Gay marriage will not effect anybody except the two concenting adults that enter into it.PERIOD! It is not rocket science.
yes it will affect other people. It’s already effected people. it puts limitations on what job a christian can have. for example a christian who believes that homosexuality is a sin would be forced to resign and or aid in allowing their neighbor to sin. For example should a gay couple choose to use a christian wedding planner should they dare turn down their business they could face a lawsuit. Look at massachusessets no accomodation is being shown for christian parents who do not want their children involved in diversity training but the board of education say’s it’s mandatory. In places where gay marriage is leagal they have gay pride parades that display vulgarity. I think it is in San franscisco or something like it in which they have a gay festival that puts vulgar display’s out in the open and make it hard for women and children to avoid it because it’s location is in the business district. They want accomodation for themselves but no accomodation for us. After gay marriage comes hate crimes and hate speech laws. if you haven’t read all of the comments up above I’m in the middle of a argument with a woman who thinks it’s okay that maine wants to open up restrooms and locker rooms to transgendered students. Meaning they want some little boy that still has a penis into the girls restroom just because up in his head he thinks he is a girl. Not to mention this could become a public thing as well. Meaning that they would open up adult locker rooms to all kinds of sexual predators. In some countries pastors have been arrested because of hate speech laws. In canada a christian printer was sued because he refused to print propaganda for the LGBT. The state of canada tried to tell him that his relgion is a personal matter and belongs at home which is not the case. these people seem to think that it’s something we can turn on and off but it’s not. We are supposed to live a godly lifestyle 24/7 and follow in jesus’s footsteps 24/7. I’m sorry but gay marriage leads to other laws that infringe my rights thus gay marriage should be stopped.
Just a reminder, this ISN”T a christian nation, but a nation of many and all religions. So don’t try to impose your religion when trying t pass laws solely pertaining to it. When the founding fathers made this country, they made it a country of religious freedom, so making laws banning divorce and gay marriage because it’s against your religion interjects on the freedom of people in different religions and should be considered a violation of civil liberties. Remember this is a free country, so let us have the choice to decide with who and how we spend the rest of our lives.
That is the allusion, but in reality, we are a very Christian nation. All other religions are just ticks on the dog. Want proof? Try to elect a non-christian as president. So long as there are good men like Pat Robertson and James Dobson, that will never happen! Christian soldiers are poised across this great nation to preserve what is ours and we will not let it go by the wayside!
God is a piece of shit, which does not desserve our prayers. Let him go to Hell !
God is a piece of shit that does not deserve our prayers. Let him go to Hell !
Innocent. Yeah. Innocence is LETTING EVERYBODY GET FUCKING MARRIED YOU PRICKS.
“..The more equal something is the more American it is..” Andy Warhol.
What ever happened to America being equal. In the constitution it says that “All men are created equal” So, all you insensitive dick holes are saying gays aren’t people?
Fuck you. Fuck you all.
Not us but JESUS says that Chuck. The homo and the divorcee will only be restored through ascepting the Word of God and the disipline of there church and until that day then they are not citizens in a free Christian country.
And God forgives u for calling me a “dick hole,” pinche maricón.
you fucking christians have really shown the rest of the world your affinity for sheer hypocrisy. advertise a religion based on unconditional love, and throw on numerous conditions. unless im mistaken, the first commandment is to put god and his word before anyone else. i challenge you to show me one single fucking passage in the bible where either god or jesus specifically condemns homosexuality. not something from leviticus, which predicts apocalypse by dragons, but something from the ill-quoted mouth of god. next time you decide to loosely interpret the bible for your own archaic, disgusting ulterior motives, consider that there are also passages on how to adequately stone your wife. do you eat meat on fridays? i hope so, because i suck dick on fridays. most other days as well.
i’d like to close this with a prayer. hail mary, full of grace. i sucked a dick last night. amen.
James, thanks for pointing out that God is speaking directly from his mouth to Moses in Leviticus 18:22 22′You shall not lie with a male as one lies with a female; it is an abomination.
Here’s a few others where God talks about the issue:
Mark 10: 5-9 5 And Jesus answered and said to them, “Because of the hardness of your heart he wrote you this precept. 6 But from the beginning of the creation, God d‘made them male and female.’ 7 e‘For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, 8 and the two shall become one flesh’; so then they are no longer two, but one flesh. 9 Therefore what God has joined together, let not man separate.”
Romans 1: 26-27
26 For this reason God gave them over to degrading passions; for their women exchanged the natural function for that which is unnatural,
27 and in the same way also the men abandoned the natural function of the woman and burned in their desire toward one another, men with men committing indecent acts and receiving in their own persons the due penalty of their error.
1 Corinthians 6:9-11
9 Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived; neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor homosexuals,
10 nor thieves, nor the covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers, will inherit the kingdom of God.
11 Such were some of you; but you were washed, but you were sanctified, but you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and in the Spirit of our God.
James, notice that God is speaking to Christians about themselves in that last verse. He says “and such were some of you”. These Christians repented of their sins and turned to God. I pray you will do the same. God bless.
what about sodem and gomorah? The reason why he destroyed them is because they had become wicked and it is suggested that there was sexual wickedness going on as well. God destroyed them so there you have it.
Well … I guess that settles that.
(Still looking for that pillar of salt.)
and by the way, your wall is all wrong. remember kiddies, ROYGBV. i bet acronyms to remember the order of the rainbow are forbidden in your little institutions of deceit and intolreance.
James it is Violet who gives willingley not Victor. May God restore u to His way of thinking in Jesus name amen.
Question, did you fail science class? Or at least that section of it? If you are going to be using ROYGBIV, do it right. Originally, the color spectrum, which the rainbow contains, was Red, Orange, Yellow, Green, Blue, Indigo and Violet. There are two acceptable ways to use that acronym. Either Roy G Biv, or Roy G Biv without an “eye”. Just sayin.
Actually scientists removed “indigo”, apparently it’s too similar to blue and violet to count.
Yes, they did remove indigo. Hence the Roy G Biv without an “eye”, which they now teach to honor the fact that indigo was once there. The acronym was meant as a name, and does not make sense when following the new color scheme, so they kept it as is, and made a joke out of it.
I’m hoping this posts under you, since it won’t let me reply to you.
I’m starting to think that alot of you are mormon’s that or else your some time traveling puritians. does the puritian religion still exist, some of you fire and brimstone people on here might want to consider starting it up again. Then I can laugh at all of you when you go on your first witch hunt!
I like when you people use the bible to support your arguments, because honestly, if you do not realize this website is a joke!! Okay, but you bible people, can I stone you for wearing garments made of two different threads? Can I stone you for planting two different crops side by side? What if you break a marriage vow? Do you think that marriage vows that normally lasted 15 to 20 years at the time the book was written have the same meaning in a time when people can be married easily for 50? But I mean really, if you want to ban divorce and stop gay marriage, you are also endorsing slavery and stoning, and are agreeing that your daughters are property. Don’t use the bible to defend your claims people. And seriously, look a the picture, get clue, and please have a good laugh.
Amen to all that, stone the rebellious child and the Sabbath breaker as the L*RD commands! And the Holy Word says we can also own slaves but not from neighbor countries. I live in CA so I cant own any Mexicans, but G*D says it’s OK to own Canadians. May President Palin make it so, amen.
“I live in CA so I cant own any Mexicans, but G*D says it’s OK to own Canadians.”
Okay, now I KNOW that Son of Thunder is in on the joke. He’s just VERY subtle.
You just realized that? LOL. I knew that from the start.
I agree though, if you really want to use the bible as a point in a debate, you should be prepared to follow every letter of it. Similiar to how Jews still do, though they did translate their copies better, and they are much nicer about it.
Maybe it is that bit of feminist in me, but I can’t follow a book that pretty much claims women are the root of evil.
Great site! Keep it up!
This kind of blog is incredibly informative for someone who has already been having troubles with this situation. I have looked at a lot of resources to no avail. I will continue readingg and learning here in the hope of ultimately getting past this hindrance.
You people are idiots. The text of the Bible is not accurately translated. Plus whatever happened to the first amendment? This is and will never be a Christian nation, and allowing Biblical ideals to seep into politics is ridiculous.
Baron d’Holbach said if the ignorance of nature gave birth to such a variety of gods, the knowledge of this nature is calculated to destroy them. I suggest you pick up a book other than the Bible and read it, you might learn something.
Good entry I just Love it, Keep posting more like this!
I cannot believe this act is being taken seriously. Shame on all of you. How dare you think you have any right to get involved in the lives of others. What gives you or your god the right to dictate how the rest of us live our lives? What about abusive spouses? What about loveless marriage? Why should a child have to grow up watching two parents fight because they should no longer be married? Why should two people suffer through a bad relationship because they just weren’t as good of a match as they thought. The fact of the matter is, marriage is a contract. And like most contracts, it can be broken if both parties see that the arrangement isn’t working. Your god had nothing to do with my marriage, and he had nothing to do with my divorce either. Getting married was the worst decision I have ever made, and getting a divorce was the best. For those who feel that marriage is a sacred and religious act, more power to you. You have the right to worship how you see fit. However, not everyone shares your beliefs. Why should the rest of use be forced to participate in your values when they are not our own? This is the same empirialist attitude that has oppressed and killed thousands, maybe millions. What gives you the right?
Oh and by the way it is in the constitution that this country was built on that there should always be a SEPARATION of church and state. KEEP YOUR RELIGION OUT OF MY GOVERNMENT!
Amen Freedom,
Now you understand how many Gay and Lesbian men and women feel having the Religious Reich’s beliefs dictate who they can and can not marry based on the religious view of such narrow minded people.
I really like how you stated “Why should the rest of use be forced to participate in your values when they are not our own?”
If the Religious Reich can say that “marriage is a sacred vow” then they should set an example and stand behind their moral hypocrisy and outlaw divorce completely with the same fervor as they use to persecute those who do not believe as they do.
I also like the way you bring up the fact that marriage is a contract and not a religious institution unlike what many in the Religious Reich want to make it into.
I’m still wondering why and when marriage became anything but a writ of ownership over a woman and her property as marriage had been for more then 5,000 years. It wasn’t until the 20th century that women even had any rights at all.
History has shown that the Religious Reich fought over giving women any rights at all just as the Religious Reich (namely Southern Baptists) fought to keep their slaves which they claimed was their right under God because the bible said so.
In this case the bible (both testaments) does discourage making “a vow to God” and then breaking it. It sure shows just how much their word is worth especially when they lie to their own GOD and break their word to Him/her in the company of so many others- shame, shame on these hypocrites.
I personally think this bill is a wake-up call to the Religious Reich that if they are going to turn marriage into this Holy Institution then they are also going to need to live by that institutions basic values which I feel is the message this bill is trying to set.
Maybe the national divorce rate might drop since the majority of divorce is after all based on the Religious Reich’s Fundamentalism and conservative views.
hi dr…why i agree and disagree with some of your comments i see what you see among the religeous richt….but dont let that keep you from seeking the truth about jesus…he loves you too and ask you to seek him……but its your decision….
well, lets just speak truth here…divorce isnt something God likes in fact he detest…whether christian or not..yet believers which i am proud to say i am…..dont follow what the bible teaches..marriage is for life and death only ends a marriage..no civil court has authority to end a marriage..only death and God controls that…as far as unbelivers wanting marriage ,civil unions, etc…well the laws of the land dictates that now doesnt it…christians have to obey those laws but we are commanded no to be part of it..in other words we arent to divorce but if we do we are to remain single or reconcile…christians act like the rest of the world and marry divorce and remarry..makes you question there salvation doesnt it..and by the way no religion has the authority to annul a marriage either..so when all these good people have there views and rightfully so the religion of this world has set it up..we dont do what we preach when it comes tom remarriage and divorce..if we did we wouldnt allow someone divorced and remaaried become memebers of our church but we would ask them to repent…if you want to be a religeous hypocrite then you are..if you want to be the light of this fallen world as christians , then stay married, we dont need a law by man saying divorce is illegal..God already says remarriage is! and he detest divorce..we dont need mans laws telling us what to do now do we…as far as gays etc getting married and the religeous right fighting them…tkae the log out of our own eyes first before we can ever be the light to those who we know are apart from God…the church ahs turned more away from the truth of the bible by its twisting of the truth…so christians you want to fight for marriage then keep your vows..no matter what..divorce doesnt end your marriage to your first spouse..only death…so trying to say its sactified it is but the church is guilty of not teaching the truth abouth remarriage now has it…there is no reason for remarriage as long as your spouse is alive…divorce for adultry some say is right…jesus said it was not that way in the beginning..it was for life…..so come on those who say they have ade jesus lord..repent..show the world the truth…then and only then csn we lead those astray back to God…repent for the kingdom of God is near, never more true! so all the ones saying a law against divorce have there man made laws and rights too…as for a believer we have our laws by God!we are to live by Gods word..not the worlds..hey prostitition is legal by man…gays getting married is legal by man…who do we as believrs follow..man or God…let me end in saying all the nonbelievers im sorry for the witness you have seen in a christian to turn you from the Lord..i pray you see the need for jesus to be your savior and lord..but then again he wont force himself or his will on you and neither do i…i just ask you to read his bible with an open heart and see the truth…and i pray the religeous hypocrites repent and follow the truth of his word as well..remember jesus fought agaisnt the religeous hypocrites too, yet went to the sinners to teach and set his example…may the Lord open the eyes of your hearts who read this…..
Amen pat miaoulis,
I think your 100% right in your post and so you know I am a devout Gay Roman Catholic who reads the whole Bible and such.
I too (just as my church teaches) believe that marriage is for life. You make a vow to God (which Jesus spoke about in the Gospels) and in that vow you say “Till death do us part.”
I myself am in a relationship which many don’t recognize. However we did find a Priest who secretly married us in the eye’s of God.
We have been together now for 17 years and we are still very much in love with each other. We both know that we are married, wear rings to remind us of the vows we made and understand what “TILL DEATH DO WE PART”
Thank You for your post and message. It was right on and perfect.
Amen, Pat! Focus on the Family and all the other religious right ministries who keep focusing on the unsaved world’s sins such as homosexuality, need to first take the plank out of their own eyes………….Get the adultery (as defined by Jesus) out of our camp so that we may rightly be able to help those who are stumbling/not right with Jesus. Right now we have NO credibility. Dobson’s own son is divorced and remarried(in adultery)……..Divorce and remarriage is rampant in the 700 club staff, it is rampant at TBN. We talk about “traditional/biblical marriage” yet we are not walking the walk. As a Christian who SEES the hypocrisy and has written about it extensively, I am frustrated with the blindness in the professing Church at it’s own sins………
DIVORCE MAKES BABY JESUS CRY. PERIOD.
DIVORCE MAKES BABY JESUS CRY. PERIOD.
Here is another look at Bible-based marriages:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OFkeKKszXTw
And here are some new laws to make sure gay people don’t use a sneaky workaround to gay marriage.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zhKa-NVWEg8
And finally(?) this new approach to ensuring the protection of real marriages.
Ooops, I forgot the link:
http://www.theonion.com/content/video/new_law_would_ban_marriages
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Tee hee. You christian supremists are so cute, like a toddler who does something neato. It’s funny that you take your false sense of entitlement to every corner of the earth then act surprised when we non-christians, tired of your attempts at colonizing and converting, decide to crash big aeroplanes into your buildings. Keep your god and your beliefs to yourself. Jesus wasn’t a magician or someone with special powers. He was just a typical flashy faggot with tricks up his sleeves! Oh, and he was HOT. I’d totally tap Christ’s ass!
“Voters in my State of California need to pass a new law (ballot initiative) stating that, “Mormonism is not a real and true religious faith.” This law shall eliminate tax-exempt status of any LDS church and mormons will no longer be a protected-class status on the basis of religion.”
I think we’d have had more chance of getting them demoted for financing politics. They are expressly forbidden from doing so. There is a form you can print out to file a complaint, just search for it; you’ll find it.
@Jonie,Ok I know some gat people will disagree me here but I do agree with you on ONE comment you made. I have never agree with the Gay pride parades being a place for nudity.I do not think it is necessary.As far as my marriage affecting you or your marriage you say
“yes it will affect other people. It’s already effected people. it puts limitations on what job a christian can have. for example a christian who believes that homosexuality is a sin would be forced to resign and or aid in allowing their neighbor to sin. For example should a gay couple choose to use a christian wedding planner should they dare turn down their business they could face a lawsuit. Look at massachusessets no accomodation is being shown for christian parents who do not want their children involved in diversity training but the board of education say’s it’s mandatory”
What are you smoking? I Would not ask much less force someone to plan my wedding if they did not support my union!
Second I am a Christian Why do you just assume that there are no gay Christians?
Third- You are grouping homosexuality with sexual predators!In most cases the pastors you talk about are the ones being arrested as sexual predators and the rest are straight people.
You also said ” these people seem to think that it’s something we can turn on and off but it’s not.”
That is exactly what Christians like yourself expect us to do! Just turn it off.We cannot!! What it comes down to is I am NOT going to be forced to live my life according to your rules! NOT going to happen.This is The United States and we will have the same rights and privileges as everyone else.And PLEASE!! Quit using the Bible as a weapon of hate and intolerance! That is not what real Christians use it for.And please keep your Church out of relationship and I promise to keep my relationship out of your church.With respect in our differences Tim…